I feel like a jerk today. Told someone that he/she is being excessively optimistic. Being an optimistic person myself, I should’ve never said that. Never crush the ray of hope people have about things turning the way they want them to be.
I think the word ‘reality’ is now-a-days more closer to me than ‘optimism’. Optimism sure drives you a long way. It tells you if a certain Ambani who came in with 500 rupees and made billions out of that in this city, but it will never tell you the story of millions of people who came to the city with 500 bucks and left with nothing.
By no way I’m talking negativity, but sometimes by choosing optimism, you make yourself ready for only one result, that’s called victory. Thousands of people come to Mumbai each year to become a filmstar, unfortunately, not everyone can become one. Raising your hopes high is good, but when the dreams crush, you should be able to handle it the right way.
I think the best approach would be about being optimistic throughout the journey and accepting the reality dose in the end. What’s wrong in thinking you can achieve massive things, thinking that you can be the best? But when it comes to the final outcome, you have to take it sportingly. You’re going to win some, lose some and accept whatever comes your way.
Optimism may tell you that you can climb Everest, reality might keep you happy with Amarnath yatra. Still, if this optimism would’ve gone missing, nobody would’ve climbed it till now.
9 comments:
yes optimism does indeed help...
many a times reality is far more different dan wat we optimistically accept..still bein optimistic can help u achieve sumthin 4 wich u wudnt even hav attempted if not 4 d optimism...
n agree wid u on d fact dat one shud accept reality in d end..
nice one..
cheerz!!
optimistically expect n not accept in d previous comment...rush of sleepiness on my part i guess..
I think u r very right here obviously one can think and i wud say 1 shud think of BIG things only.wen u aim higher then ur possibility to get near to it is more.And wat is important is njoyin ur journey towards ur goal wic one can only if he/she is optimistic.
sir ...good read...agree on many points...disagree on many...will take a debate to settle this!! i ve been more of a cynical person!
Optimism does help. It is like the driving force towards your goal. But again being simply optimistic makes it difficult to accept reality especially when it is not what you wanted it to be!
cheers!
I think we've discussed this:)..
a good print of thoughts. I still feel though.. Optimism is in the text book of the wise.. follow it unconditionally.
well written.
i still think their is dearth of optimists... few crazy idiots... but not enuf of them... usually most just follow reality with a small thin crust of optimism
@Omkar..
Yes, it does lead into achieving something we wouldn't have aimed for.
@Vrushali...Thanks and agree completely.
@Yugi...yes, surely we'll have a debate.
@Tanmay...So true!
@Gaurav...I'll keep reading the textbook of the wise
@Rishi...The crust will do as long as it's tasty...lol..srry for the pj.
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